Start Your Week Off Strong – Getting Organized

Getting Organized:
In your home and homeschool

               

 

Happy Monday!
This is the first day of your school week. Let’s strive to start off strong this week. First, get dressed down to your shoes. Get your children up, and after they eat breakfast, send them to get dressed down to their shoes. I have learned over the years that it is less messy if they get dressed after they eat and brush their teeth.
Check your Morning Routine and see where you need to declutter and which Home Blessing you are doing today. I wash my sheets on Monday. The boys wash their sheets throughout the week.
Next, check your menu plan and make sure you don’t need to be thawing out ingredients for dinner. I have started using an electric pressure cooker for many of our evening meals, and it has been so nice to start dinner a little later in the afternoon.
Usually, the dishwasher is ready to run just after breakfast, so I get it started while the boys are brushing their teeth and getting dressed. As you can see, we have fine-tuned our routines. Each person knows what to do each morning.
We start school as they finish their morning routines. They take turns checking on the outdoor animals and refreshing water. So there are different start times for them. They know to start with math, and then they work through their subjects and talk to me as needed for directions.
As they work through their morning schoolwork, we alternate movement activities with sit-down work. This helps them focus when they are doing their paperwork.
Your Zone Mission today is to declutter the kitchen counters and wipe down.
Your Home Blessing for today is to wash sheets.
My menu plan for Monday is hamburgers and a salad.
How strong is your Morning Routine? How can I help you with ideas on making it great?
Have a wonderful day!

 

Zone Missions: The Kitchen

Monday – Declutter Kitchen Counters and Wipe Down

Tuesday – Declutter 1 Kitchen Drawer

Wednesday –  Declutter 1 Kitchen Cabinet

Thursday – Declutter one shelf in the Fridge

Friday – Wipe down the Stove and Microwave

 

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Nurturing Your Relationship – Getting Organized

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Happy Friday!
In recent weeks, I talked about the importance of a regular date night. Another part of keeping your relationship healthy with your spouse is to have a regular time away from the house and the children. If you can arrange one or two nights away once or twice a year, it will give you and your spouse time to connect and talk without the distractions you have at home.
If your budget is limited, you can look for inexpensive ways to get away. Your investment in your relationship is worth it. If you have to serve simple meals and save some money for a night away, then do it. If you get a tax refund back in the spring, earmark part of it for a weekend away. Spending a weekend at home without the kids will lead to doing projects. The purpose of this time alone is for you both to relax and enjoy one another, so I want you to strive for getting out of town alone with your spouse.
Being homeschool parents is a lot of work. It takes a lot of time and sacrifice. This is one reason why you need to have this time away to let the stress go. This is a time for you both to have fun as a couple. This is a time for you to remember why you got married in the first place. This is a time to keep the fires burning. One day you will wake up, and all of your children will be grown and moving on with their lives. You will be a couple once again. Date night and weekends away will help you have time to nurture your relationship as husband and wife. You don’t want to realize that you don’t really know each other after the children are grown.
Your Zone Mission today is to declutter the dining room.
Your Home Blessing for today is to empty all of the trash, sweep, and mop.
My menu plan for Friday is dinner out with my husband. The boys will be having BBQ with my mom.
Have a wonderful weekend!
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Let Your Kids Get Messy – Getting Organized

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Children learn by doing things. Sometimes this means that children get messy and dirty while they are learning. Let them play, discover, learn, and get dirty. They are washable, and they will learn skills that will enhance their lives. Learning through play makes and education fun and memorable.
If you are a perfectionist, the previous paragraph probably gave you chills to think about, so bear with me and keep reading.
The main issue you have with letting your children play and get messy is that you don’t want to deal with one more mess. My children have daily clothes that they can play in and get dirty in. They wear clothes they can paint in and play in. If they get really dirty, and let’s face it – boys can do that easily, they just drop their dirty clothes straight in the washer. It is really not a big deal if they play outside and get dirty.
When they get messy inside when painting, doing crafts, or cooking, we work together to clean up any mess that is made. We wash hands frequently. We use aprons. We wipe counters and sweep floors. Really, with team work, it does not take long to clean up.
The rewards of their creative play are many. They are engaging different parts of their brain when they are doing creative activities. They are learning about the world around them and how things work. They are learning that somethings do not work as they think it will. They learn science and math concepts through messy playtime. They relax and think about the deeper concepts you have been teaching them.
If you do not let your children have messy playtime, try it this week. Let me know how it goes.
Your Zone Mission today is to declutter the Entryway.
Your Home Blessing for today is to declutter paper and magazines.
My menu plan for Thursday is chicken stir fry and veggies.
Have a wonderful day!
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Getting Dressed to the Shoes – Getting Organized

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Happy March 1st! I enjoy the beginning of a new month, and I enjoy this time of the year as it begins to warm up after the winter. In March, the habit we will be practicing is getting dressed all the way down to our lace-up shoes. This one habit causes a lot of discussion, and unless it is against a cultural belief, I want you to try this habit with your children all month.

It sounds simple enough to get dressed down to the lace-up shoes, but it takes some thought. It takes some planning. You need to have the laundry caught up and put away. It is helpful if you practice your Before Bed Routine and lay your clothes out each night. Teaching your children to do this habit will help you start your school day off faster and more peaceful. We all want that in our homes!

One common statement about wearing shoes in the house has to do with the dirt children can track into your home. If you teach your children to clean their shoes off before they come into the house, this will not be a problem. With four boys and living in the country, I taught them to sweep the kitchen floor. When they would come into the kitchen door and track dirt or leaves into the house, I would remind them to sweep behind themselves. It did not take long for them to realize that it was easier to clean their shoes outside. I always used a nice voice with them when asking them to sweep behind themselves. I do not yell or scream to get them to do things.

Start today with everyone in the house getting dressed first thing in the morning. Let me know if your school day goes better when you do this. It sets the tone in our house that we are ready to work when we are dressed down to the shoes.

Your Zone Mission today is to sweep the front porch.

Your Home Blessing for today is to wipe the windows and mirrors.

My menu plan for Wednesday is grilled chicken and a salad.

Have a wonderful day!

 

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Motivating Children – Getting Organized

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How do you motivate your children to help you around the house and do their school work without complaint?
Using a reward system is the best way I have found to motivate my children to help around the house. Rewards are based on the children’s favorite activities. If my children do their dailiy routines and their school work without complaint, I do something fun with them. They love playing games, fishing, and going to the sporting goods section at the store.

They are not paid for doing their routines or cleaning up behind themselves, but I do pay them for doing things above and beyond their list.

You know your children better than anyone. You can pick rewards that they appreciate without adding clutter to your home or spending a lot of money. Children often want just uninterrupted time with us. My children look forward to the 30 to 45 minutes I spend with them at night playing a game with them. They realize that I work, and I have to get my work done before I play. They know that I expect the same from them.
When it is time to detail clean in the Living Room, I let my boys clean out the sofa and chairs. They call this Treasure Hunting. They never know what they will find!
My children are not naturally organized or neat and tidy. Well, one of them is born-ogranized, but the rest are like you and me. Developing their routines and picking up behind themselves keeps my house from falling into chaos.
We use The FlyLady’s Homeschool Student Control Journal to help them develop their routines and take care of their bedrooms.
Your Zone Mission today is to detail dust the living room and vacuum under the furniture.

Your Home Blessing for today is to dust and vacuum.

My menu plan for Tuesday is cheeseburger bake and a salad.
Have a wonderful day!
If you need more help with organizing your home and homeschool, you can download  The FlyLady’s Homeschool Teacher and Homeschool Student Control Journals for free.

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Decluttering One Area at a Time – Getting Organized

Getting Organized:
In your home and homeschool

              

 

How did you do this month with decluttering? We have talked about delcuttering books, papers, and more this month. If you spend 5 to 15minutes a day decluttering, you will see progress and have peace in your home. Homeschooling brings lots of papers and books into your home. You can manage them, but you have to continue the habit of purging.

You are likely over halfway finished with your school year and starting to think about next school year. Take a look at what you already have on hand when you start making your book purchase list. If you have books you are not going to use, talk to some of your local homeschool moms to have a book exchange. This is a great way to bless someone else with books you are not using, and you might find some books you need.

If you use many classic books in your homeschool, consider how to best provide these for your children without stuffing your bookshelves with more books. I use library books and electronic books when possible. There are some classics that I do want to have a hard copy on my shelf, and I reserve a section in my bookshelf for those.

Collecting books for the sake of having them will overload you with books. Your children will not be more educated because you have too many books. Often, when you have too many books, you are too overwhelmed to hunt through them for the book you want to use.

This week, we are decluttering in several areas. You will spend just 15 minutes a day in each area, so use your timer. We will start in the Living Room or Family Room, and then we will spend time decluttering the Front Porch, Entryway, and Dining Room.

Your Zone Mission today is to declutter in the Living Room or Family Room for 15 minutes.

 

Zone Missions: The Living Room, Front Porch, Entryway, Dining Room
Monday – Declutter Flat Surfaces in the Living Room

Tuesday – Detail Dust the Living Room and Under the Furniture

Wednesday –  Sweep the Front Porch

Thursday – Declutter the Entryway

Friday – Declutter the Dining Room

Menu Plan for Monday – Bunless Burgers and Salad

Weekly Home Blessing – Wash the Sheets

Have a wonderful day!
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Planning Day – Getting Organized

Getting Organized:
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Friday is my planning day for the next week. This is the day I do a final check of the boys’ school work and plan the lessons we will cover in the next week. If I need library books, I put that down on my errand list because I do errands on Friday, too.

Menu planning is also a part of my Friday planning process. I check the pantry, freezer, and fridge. Then I start making a list of menu ideas. I will consult with my husband and sons for ideas on foods they would like to have. Many times I do a simple meal rotation if I know we will have a busy week.

Bill paying is also done on Fridays. I file our bills by the date they are due when they come in the mail, and then I pay bills on Friday.

Finally, I check the calendar for upcoming birthdays and anniversaries. I add cards and gifts to my errand list as needed at this point.

While I am doing this part of my week, the boys are gathering trash, taking it off, sweeping, and mopping.

When we are done, we go on our errands. Some weeks I go alone on my errands, and some weeks the boys join me.

Let’s finish up the week in our bedrooms and clean under the beds.

Have a great weekend!

Zone Mission: Clean under the bedWeekly Home Blessing: Take out the Trash, Sweep, and Mop

 
Menu Plan: Round Steak and a Salad

 

Routines:

 

Home:
  • Make Your Bed (Do this as soon as you get up.)
  • Get Dressed Down to Your Shoes
  • Swish and Swipe
  • Start Your Laundry
  • Decide on Dinner
  • Check Your Calendar
  • Start the Day off with a Shiny Sink. Don’t leave the breakfast dishes sitting.

School:

  • Have a fun day!
 Afternoon Routine:
  • Eat Lunch
  • Clear off One Hot Spot
  • Reboot the Laundry
  • Declutter for 15 Minutes (Be sure to have your children declutter, too.)
  • Drink Your Water
  • Loving movement for 15 Minutes

Before Bed: (This starts right after dinner.)

  • Check the Calendar for Tomorrow
  • Lay out Your Clothes for Tomorrow (Have your children lay their clothes out, too.)
  • Put things at your launch pad
  • Shine Your Sink
  • Clean Off a Hot Spot
  • Go to Bed at Decent Hour

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Dirty Dishes – Getting Organized

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One question I received last week was about kids and the amount of dishes that they dirty in a day. Does this happen in your house, too?

Since we homeschool and have three meals a day plus snacks at home, there is a potential for a lot of dishes to be dirtied in a day. A few strategies that I have used includes the children hand-washing the dishes they dirty them throughout the day. I have also used color coded cups. When I had really young children, I used a laminated mat with each child’s name on it and a circle. They had to keep their cup on that mat. This kept them from leaving cups all over the house and losing them. As they got older, I have taught them to clean the kitchen as they cook. These few strategies have lessened the amount of dishes that are dirtied in a day.

Your dishwasher is not a just a holding place for dishes. Use it as often as you need. I have to run my dishwasher twice a day. The boys take turns emptying it as soon as it finishes a cycle. That way it is ready for them to put their dirty dishes in as they need it.

One idea someone passed on to me was to limit the number of glasses and plates that are available to them. The children are then put into a position to have to wash the dishes as soon as they dirty them. This would help those children to get a clean glass or plate out every time they need something.

We also use reusable water bottles. That can make for several of them to be on the counter drying overnight, but it helps a lot with the amount of glasses used during the day.

Have a wonderful day!

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Zone Mission – Put away all of your laundry items

Weekly Home Blessing Task: Declutter Paper/Magazines

 
Menu Plan for Thursday: Baked Chicken and salad

Routines:

Home:
  • Make Your Bed (Do this as soon as you get up.)
  • Get Dressed Down to Your Shoes
  • Swish and Swipe
  • Start Your Laundry
  • Decide on Dinner
  • Check Your Calendar
  • Start the Day off with a Shiny Sink. Don’t leave the breakfast dishes sitting.

School:

  • Play a game with your children
 Afternoon Routine:
  • Eat Lunch
  • Clear off One Hot Spot
  • Reboot the Laundry
  • Declutter for 15 Minutes (Be sure to have your children declutter, too.)
  • Drink Your Water
  • 15 minutes of loving movement

Before Bed: (This starts right after dinner.)

  • Check the Calendar for Tomorrow
  • Lay out Your Clothes for Tomorrow (Have your children lay their clothes out, too.)
  • Put things at your launch pad
  • Shine Your Sink
  • Clean Off a Hot Spot
  • Go to Bed at Decent Hour

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Using Positive Words – Getting Organized

Getting Organized:
In your home and homeschool

Do you use positive words with yourself and with your family each day? Using positive affirmations builds up others. If you struggle with negative thoughts, use a journal to write down positive things. Use a Thesaurus (or an app with a Dictionary and Thesaurus) to help you find new words to use.

Start using these words with your children, and use them with yourself and your spouse, too. We live in a world of negativity. Let’s be the change to bring some positive affirmations into the lives of those we love.

When you hear yourself say, “I can’t,” look for ways to make it possible. If you encounter a roadblock to your goals, look for another way to get there.

Take a look at your lesson plans and progress for this school year. Are you on track to reach your goals? Do you need to re-assess anything? I have found that some years, we may move slower in math as new concepts are not always easy to grasp. I have made decisions on how to best finish our math lessons around this time of the year when we have a slower paced year.

My goal in teaching my children is to ignite a love of learning and teach them in a way that they understand it (mastery teaching). This means we move along at the student’s pace. We can move fast, or we can move slow. It is a beautiful part of the homeschool journey.

How do you feel about your school year?

Have a great day!

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Zone Mission – Declutter some shoes

Weekly Home Blessing Task: Wipe Windows and Mirrors

 
Menu Plan for Wednesday: Chicken and Veggies

Routines:

Home:
  • Make Your Bed (Do this as soon as you get up.)
  • Get Dressed Down to Your Shoes
  • Swish and Swipe
  • Start Your Laundry
  • Decide on Dinner
  • Check Your Calendar
  • Start the Day off with a Shiny Sink. Don’t leave the breakfast dishes sitting.

School:

  • Get out some art supplies and be creative with your children.
 Afternoon Routine:
  • Eat Lunch
  • Clear off One Hot Spot
  • Reboot the Laundry
  • Declutter for 15 Minutes (Be sure to have your children declutter, too.)
  • Drink Your Water
  • 15 minutes of loving movement

Before Bed: (This starts right after dinner.)

  • Check the Calendar for Tomorrow
  • Lay out Your Clothes for Tomorrow (Have your children lay their clothes out, too.)
  • Put things at your launch pad
  • Shine Your Sink
  • Clean Off a Hot Spot
  • Go to Bed at Decent Hour

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Thinning Out Your Closet – Getting Organized

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The past few weeks have been warm in the South, and it has me thinking about decluttering some of the winter clothes I did not wear this year. You probably have things in your closet that you did not wear this winter either.

My boys have been eating a lot over the winter, and I can tell they are growing. Today I am going to spend 15 minutes pulling things from my closet that I did not wear, and I am going to ask the boys to do the same thing. My boys can put a pair of pants in the laundry, and by the time they put them on again, the pants are too short!

By thinning down what is in the closet, we will have more room to put laundry away. It will make it faster and easier, too. I put my laundry away daily when I hang it up. Once I got into this habit, I realized how fast it can be to put my clothes away.

Tell me where you have issues in dealing with clothes in your home?

Have a wonderful day!

 

Zone Mission: Declutter in your closet

Weekly Home Blessings of the Day: Quick Dust and Vacuum

Menu Plan for Tuesday: Tacos and Salad

 

If you need more help with organizing your home and homeschool, you can download  The FlyLady’s Homeschool Teacher and Homeschool Student Control Journals for free.

Set your timer for 15 minutes for the Home Assignment and 15 minutes for the School Assignment
 
Home:
  • Make Your Bed (Do this as soon as you get up.)
  • Get Dressed Down to Your Shoes
  • Swish and Swipe
  • Start Your Laundry
  • Decide on Dinner
  • Check Your Calendar
  • Start the Day off with a Shiny Sink. Don’t leave the breakfast dishes sitting.
  • Clean out your refrigerator. Toss the science experiments.
  • Spend 15 minutes loving movement.

School: Ask your children what interests them. Pick up some library books on the topic.

 Afternoon Routine: 
  • Eat Lunch
  • Clear off One Hot Spot
  • Reboot the Laundry
  • Declutter for 15 Minutes (Be sure to have your children declutter, too.)
  • Drink Your Water
  • Write up a menu plan for the next 7 days. Check your pantry and freezer and make a grocery list. This habit will save you time and money. Try out some new recipes with the slow cooker. It will save you time once you start back to your school schedule.
Family Fun: Take your children for a walk.
Before Bed: (This starts right after dinner.) 
  • Check the Calendar for Tomorrow
  • Lay out Your Clothes for Tomorrow (Have your children lay their clothes out, too.)
  • Put things at the Launch Pad that you will need first thing in the morning
  • Shine Your Sink
  • Clean Off a Hot Spot
  • Go to Bed at Decent Hour

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